The Delusion Called Love.

[ Lessons Learnt From Life - Part 2]

There's nothing more sad than to see a person who's helpless over their own emotions. Someone who is so lost, that they try to find love in any form that makes them feel worthy in that moment. A short time, even if only for a few moments, fills a void. But if the void returns as the moment ends ; it swallows you whole. Each time you rise to the surface, you sink again. It's quicksand pulling you under, hard - until the phone rings, and 'they' talk to you. Until anything shows you the smallest amount of attention, a glimpse of a feeling that could be, or used to be, or should be. All your life, you build these pretty fences around you, like an armor. And then all of a sudden, you fall for some naive expression of amusement and you give them a piece of yours, that they never even asked for, in the first place. That one glance across the room, feels like this love, and you stalk it. You need it like a drug. You sell your soul to feel good for an hour, relying on people who aren't worth your time, attention and most of all your exclusive soul ! And about those people ; Well, what about them ! They simply take you as a good omen and start collecting that love, to feed their own need to be cared for. But they are not losing anything. Not even an ounce of emotional confidence.

But you know who is? You are. You are losing every shattered piece of your generous, sound heart- bit by bit, day by day, with sheer pain every now and then. Don't get me wrong. There's nothing wrong with having your heart broken. But at least for something plausible, and more permanent. Let's just say, having your heart broken on seeing your expensive car smashing right in front of your eyes, would shake you from the inside out. But deep down, you're thanking your dear Lord, that you weren't inside the car. Or seeing your close one lingering slowly out of this world due to a nerve cracking illness, can be devastating. But in this too, you know this for a fact that they must be in a better place than this. So that's not guaranteed to cause you grief forever too, right?

But having your heart broken - No, not broken. Tortured, made miserable, smashed and utterly destroyed & mocked by someone, who, for the most part, didn't deserve it - is a feeling that can haunt you for something known as forever. That's when you start regretting all those times you trusted and the amount of love you invested in that person. That ultimate feeling of helplessness is like your new 24X7. And suddenly your whole life story comprises of uncountable 'If-only's' and 'could've-beens'. Because English language does not allow you to project your emotions in any other way. You're forced to write about the past and imagine it as an 'of course-there-was-a-happily-ever-after-ending' in the future. And then after some time, you become a stained wreck, so failed and lost that you can't see what you used to be. And nevertheless, with such an improbable past, and almost blurred future, the void starts to become the part of your very existence. The existence of an almost new you - And not the self, you thought you were.

Stay Blessed.

By: Ramsha Haadi.
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NEVER ENDING CUISINE:

Pakistani cuisine is one the cuisine which will never end. Pakistani foods are great food which is love by every one. As every country has their different region so Pakistan also has. Each province has their own culture so the taste of people is off course different.  In Pakistan, we have regional dishes and food and then there is dishes popular country wide. In KPK, food and recipes are motivated from neighboring Afghanistan, Punjab has a rich culture, Sindh and Baluchistan have their own usual food. Some traditional and popular food throughout stand apart all and are equally liked by everyone. 

Pakistani recipe, which is also categorized by cuisine, course and many other options. Here you can also get latest breakfast recipes, daal recipes, most popular dessert and sweets recipes, Kebabs recipes, a vast collection of chicken recipes, beef & mutton recipes, seafood & fish recipes, tandoori recipes. Also on some occasions parents are keen to prepare recipes of their kids, so for them here is kids recipes you can prepare at home.I am not forgetting to mention recipes and food for special occasions like Eid Recipes, Holiday Recipes, including Eid ul Fitr recipes, Eid ul Adha recipes and Iftari Recipes. Biryani and Pakistani foods are directly linked. No Pakistani feast is complete without its presence. It became a smashing hit in Pakistan for people here are crazy about it. Even I like it most. It is made from rice and meat of any type. Biryani took many forms and shapes and even recipe variations here such as Mutton Biryani, Sindhi BIryani, Tikka Biryani, aalo Biryani etc.Punjabis most famous dish Makai ki Roti with sarsoon ka saag plus lassi and makhan. Punjabi’s are considered as most foody people because their food are rich and heavy.Behari  one of the great caste. The have different taste of food. Their recipes are loved by every one. Behari kabab, behari karhi. Behari cholay and so many other dishes are famous.
 Sindhi are also food lovers although they don’t have any different dish except Sindhi biryani and Sindhi pulao. Balochi’s are famous in their Sajji and damphukht. Many restaurant are practice their Sajji but off course their taste will never be copied. Pakhtun are famed by their sabz tea, Tandoori chicken, roast and typical type soup which I love personally.

 Now come to the breakfast of Pakistan which has its own value. Halwa Puri is the last but not least especial breakfast item of Pakistan. It is originated from Punjab but famous all over the world for its yummy taste and halwa eye-catching color. Halwa is a sweet dish that involves Suji, a kind of flour and sugar majorly; while Puri is made out of gram-flour and then deep fried in the oil.Paratha, egg omelet, tea, masala aalu are routine breakfast. Haleem, Nihari, Qorma, Payee are mouth watering dishes for Pakistanis. Hence, We are Pakistani and we love our nation, country, tradition, culture and food.Thank you for reading.